Day 42 (REALLY)

(42nd day, 323 more days to go) if you REALLY want to.

One of the worst excuse that anyone can tell me is that they were too busy to do something.  My response is always, “Oh, REALLY!”  I truly believe that if you REALLY want to do something or anything that you’re going to do it.  If you REALLY want some ice cream and it’s clear across town, guess what, you’re going to get that dang ice cream.  If you REALLY want to call me to see how I’m doing, guess what, you can send a quick text/email or maybe pick up the phone to call me.  If you REALLY want to change your life, guess what, you will get your butt out of bed everyday to make things happen in your life instead of talking about it all the time.

You see Dear Reader, people make excuses all the time and that’s fine.  However, if you’re one of those people who just complain and make excuses for their situation then why would you think that people will take you seriously.  Have you researched the college you want to attend? Did you make changes to your resume so that it can stand out from the millions of other resumes?  Are you REALLY going to break up with him after being together for over 10 years? (This is a question I had to ask myself throughout my entire relationship with my daughter’s father)  If the answers to these questions is not a flat-out YES then you are REALLY wasting other people’s time.  Like my mother always says, “you’re not lying to me, you’re lying to yourself.”


Love Yourself!

Written By: Maxx



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Authors of the book, "Are You A 'Crazy' Baby Mama?" which is a handbook for Single Moms. We are single moms who have RE-defined "Crazy" and celebrate ALL moms. If you're "crazy" about your kids then you're probably a "crazy" baby mama. It's about taking something that's negative and turning it into something positive. No more drama for these "Crazy" Baby Mamas. View all posts by crazybabymamas

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